Since young, it has always been living in the solitude world until things change when you grow older. To be direct, when you become an adult. When being young, you will never understand how to explain you own emotions. Sometimes, you won't even understand what emotion it is that you were going through. As an adult, when maturing, you will tend to think back of the situations that has happened to you badly which you never had the chance of understanding your emotion and realise what kind of emotion you were going through. Living in the world of feeling low moraled, ridiculed by others and being not appreciated does really do affect the person alot. When such things happen, this person tend to look out for other resources which brings "life" to the person. A different life. A different atmosphere. A different beginning of everything. When this person gets that sort of a world, it really means to that person so much till he or she does not want to let it go away. It may be a fantasy you may call it. But such people who go through such phases of feeling negative in life will tend to convert this fantasy, to Reality.Such people get even more emotionally affected when this change happens. Such instances happen when the people whom he or she faced before starts to comment on the different world that he or she live in. The new character that he or she has, the new people that entered in his or her life and so on. When the solitude person hears comments that creates a discouraging effect on him and her, this person starts to react in a very emotional manner internally. But this kind of an emotion is scary as when such a situation is going on , the person should voice out his or her inner feeling on the spot. Regardless of that, he or she shows it to the comment creators through another situation which is not exactly a link to the previous situation. Because of this, all those commenters do not know how to react. Some blast at that solitude person. Some feel like it's a slap on their face for nothing. Some feel that situation should be tackled in a different way. Some, just simply give a lame advice, which is the best that the commenter can do.The affected solitude individual sometimes do tend to not want to leak out information that they have. They don't wished to reveal certain issues to others. Not because they don't trust them. But sometimes, they just don't want to tell and those who were dying to know what's the secret just got to live with that thought. Because, the solitude one does not really have the thought of finding out what happen to these commenters lives, she he or she feels that the other parties should respect the fact that the secret should not be told to them. Sometimes I refer the word solitude doesn't mean that he or she is being lonely all the time. He or she does have a life with friends and family (immediate Family that is.). He or she does enjoy life having these people around. Not saying that he or she does not want to be with other relatives, but just that sometimes, these kind of people just wish to not get too involved in the relatives itself. Bottom line, it's a benefit for both parties to not get into situations to hurt one another.God, I wish I blogged well today. Hope this essay goes to some psychology magazine or something. :P
posted by ..BLaCkDiVa.. @ 11:21 AM
